As I’ve said before, items can sometimes linger on your TODO list a lot longer than you’d like, and it can be tricky to understand exactly why that is in each case. I’m convinced cringing is often a factor.
Being that it’s Monday, and a lot of us are planning this week’s activities, why not join me in a modest exercise.
- Print out your TODO list (alphabetically, if possible)
- Read it over—beginning to end
- Go back and circle each item that makes you cringe, or that causes you some kind of existential angst
- Per cringe item, think honestly about why you’re freaked out about it. Seriously. What’s the hang-up? (Fear of failure? Dreading bad news? Angry you’re already way overdue?)
- Now, again, per cringe item, add a new TODO that will a) make the loathsome task less cringe-worthy, or b) just get the damned thing done
- Cross the original cringe items off your list
- Work immediately on the new, cringe-busting TODO
If you could do this for just one item on your TODO list today, wouldn’t you be a little better off? Is there a quick call you could make, a draft you could edit, an email you could return, or some other piddling 2-minute task that would plane some cringe off of your hated tasks?
Imagine if you did this today for five items on your list. Now imagine you began each Monday with a Cringe Bust. Might be a handy way to pick off old items and let some unnecessary anxiety out of your working week.
(For extra credit, find the item on your list that’s been making you cringe for the longest. Anybody else turning up items that have been inducing cringes for over a month? Ouch. I suck.)
I like this approach because it appeals to the semi-structured/unstructured Graham Chastney. I’m definitely not one of these people who can look as a to-do list and prioritise it and then work through in priority order. It just doesn’t appeal and it’s in that word that the true me is revealed. There are loads of other tasks that may be more important but that just isn’t enough, they have to appeal in some way or another. And I’m OK with a philosophy that defines one of the factors as the cringe factor. Of course I also assess my to-do lists from other appeal factors.
- Is this task interesting?
- Does this task have value (as defined by me of course)?
- Is this task for someone I like working with (because I don’t suffer fools)?
- What is the reward for this task (that is rewards to me of course)?
- Do I know that in completing this task that I will just get another one given to me (so actually there isn’t any point in completing this one)?
- Do I think that if I don’t do this task the reason t do it will just disappear (as so many do)?
- What is the pain involved in not doing this task (because life isn’t without pain anyway)?
- Is this task overdue yet (because I don’t need to worry about it if it isn’t)?
Yes I know this list should be something more like:
- Is this task of value to the company?
- Has this task been requested by my superior?
Tough, it doesn’t. Those two narrow factors just don’t appeal. And yes I really do believe that my employee should give me tasks that appeal (if they want the best out of me).